Feeling Very Mumsy and Dizzy

Contrary to the title above...NOPE. Im not pregnant and not feeling pregnant as yet.

Today is the 3rd day at MIL's place. So far, it has been really great. I prepared black pepper chicken with spring onions and fried kailan for dinner last night. She was rather reluctant to eat coz she's very health-conscious and was 'urggh' to see the oil... (oops, my bad.Ter-pour too much oil)

But I was actually quite glad when she said its nice but a little salty. Hehee...Malay cooking so I cant 'run' from our spices lor. To me, it was just nice but for her, I would have to be extra cautious not to add too much of sugar, salt and spices... And oil too!! :)

We did some last night shopping to Mustafa Centre to get some utensils and some household necessities and the hub was very disturbed that I bought 80% of the stuffs in PINK!! And that means...pink waste basket....pink pail...pink chopsticks..pink cups...etc. Lucky arh...I cant find any pink plates or spoons. I almost grabbed that pink ladle and scoop with such beautiful roses intricately designed on it but he was too quick to put those down and grabbed those plain, boring black ones.

Oh well...the black spatula serves me well for today's french toast with prawn bits brekkie. MIL didnt get to taste it as she was out to my BIL's place.

Planning to go 'kai-kai' after zuhur later to get some clothings and Yes!! tom yam noodle for dinner later. Not from Al-Azhar not from any Thai restaurant. Yours truly is gonna cook of course!!!

Being happy and bliss now I just wonder why there are still minority of people who just cant seem to mind their own business and go around telling others about me & my family. It seems never-ending.

Before I got married, 'these people' said my relationship with my then-fiance wont last. Alhamdullilah, we overcame the obstacles and will continue to pray to Allah for his blessings. On my wedding day, the same people said my pelamin "tak cantik... bilik pengantin tak cantik...baju pun tak cantik..."

Well..they even said me and my other sibings are so dark that we looked like Indians. Skin colour aside, we are proud to be dark like my dad and not fair like my mum. We are also blessed to have good complexion like both parents. Again, Alhamdullilah and syukur to Allah for our good genes.

One after another, my family is disturbed by these external 'commentors' who just cannot shut their mouth. The past few days ever since I slept over at MIL's place, someone asked my mum why must I publish in Facebook that Im going over to my MIL's place to stay. What happened was, her daughter read what I wrote and told her mum who in turn call MY mum and further provoked her saying.."kau kat umah sorang kan..?? anak kau tak ada keje ker tulis macam tu kat fesbuk.."
And to think that I did her engagement make-up for FREE!!!

Like HELLO!! My facebook account is MINE. I guess there's no ruling in telling users what to write and not to write. Why must it be an issue to YOU? I just cant put my finger in to it. And my Super Mum just gave me a simple solution.. Block this woman from my contact list. I wont 'delete' coz that will still gave these nosey-parkers' another pportunity to find us in FB.

These FB abusers should just be placed under FB Black List lah (if there's any). Fancy going to another contact's profile and finding us in that person's contact list. So desperate huh. Their objectives? Just to pinpoint and dig our bad points for them to analyse and dissect the problem and gave the report to my mum so that she can discipline us better.

Thank you very much.

My mum brought us up single-handedly and we are taught not to bring down or criticise others deed. Alhamdullilah, we succeed in education, life and insya-Allah, in the future.

And we definitely are not taught to GOSSIP about others coz we know we are no angels ourselves.

So......just leave my family alone, will you...??